A neighbour started a bonfire to burn the raked dry leaves in her yard, and the smoke came in through our open windows… and a soft-spoken, elderly neighbour came to my mind…
The gentle smell of the smoke reminded me of this one incident (I was a very small girl back then) when my father, who was always tidying up around the house, was burning dry leaves in that part of our yard that’s near the fence and the aratiles tree, and he was painstakingly fanning the smoke so it’d go into our house. Our elderly neighbour, in his usual leisurely and calm stride, came nearer to the fence and said a mild “hello” to him. and he said “‘oi!” back. And this neighbour said, “Pumapasok sa bahay ang usok,” (translated: “the smoke is getting into the house,” probably referring to THEIR house, too). And my father answered, “Oo nga, pinapapasok ko talaga sa bahay para lumabas ang mga lamok!” (translated: “Yes, I am really trying to get the smoke into the house so the mosquitoes would come out!”). And our neighbour, still softly and always careful not to offend, said, “Paano makalalabas ang mga lamok diyan, e me screen ang buong bahay n’yo?” (translated: “how could the mosquitoes come out, when your house has mosquito screen all around it?”)
My father laughed softly but did not answer; then he gingerly inched back into our house, and summoned my brother to take a pail of water and put out the bonfire he’s made…
bwahahahaha
Amazing how a simple smell of burning dry leaves could bring back deep-seated memories…
Tomorrow, 21 March 2008, is my father’s 94th birthday. Though he’s passed on three years ago, fond memories of him still flood my consciousness.
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7 Responses:
March 20th, 2008 at 9:44 am
Hewo!
thanks for texting me about updates to your blog… read the back issues too!
Burning dry leaves…is that just Filipinos or what? I never saw anyone doing that here….they would collect the autumn leaves but just put them in a sack and have the garbage disposal men get rid of it or bring it to a site specifically assigned for it. I do remember my dad and our neighbor (his drinking buddy) would sometimes be playful with each other and make sure the smoke would intentionally get into the other’s house… yeah for fun….kakaloka ano? ;-p
March 21st, 2008 at 7:07 am
Love the memories thing.
Wow! Your dad lived to a ripe old age. I never saw my grandfathers. My dad’s dad died soon after the war from an altercation, and my mom’s dad died of a heart attack when she was a teenager.
March 23rd, 2008 at 6:43 pm
Mabec!!!
So nice of you to drop by, even if I had to nudge you to do so! aehehehehe
You are right, burning dry leaves is pollutive, and a waste of resources. In some countries, dry leaves are turned into compost. Just a little amount of diligence, and nature will be kinder to us. I never smelt burning dry leaves when I was in New Zealand for a short time, too.
Isn’t it too quaint that one simple thing could evoke a lot of good memories of childhood? ![]()
March 23rd, 2008 at 6:46 pm
LAR, hi! Thanks for dropping by again.
When I am sad and I miss our folks, I visit Papa’s website. Then, I feel light in my heart once more. ![]()
March 23rd, 2008 at 6:48 pm
BJ, hi again! Thanks for visiting.
My eldest brother once said he is the luckiest of us all, mainly because he enjoyed having a grandfather as he grew up.
I can only guess that he’s right…
April 1st, 2008 at 8:59 am
Beckwee!!!!!!!!!! syempre kailangan pilitin mo ako…VIP ko noh! ;-p Saka kailangan, you also get to nudge the memories of good ole Manila… and the provincias.
Pollutive tho they may be….the smoke of dry leaves is a lot better than the smoke from the vehicles.
o kelan ang next blog mo? dali ng makapag comment kahit patagilid! ehehehehehe ;-p
love you!!!! Ingatz……..sila! ;-p